- respect me
-respect my home- and this means everything already in it and anything you want to bring in it
-respect my friends and family
-be honest
-dont try to make me change my morals and beliefs

o im certain someone will be found....or will find me....only time will tell :)

got time to find a new match for me ? please

be patient soldierntx....she'll find someone for ya!

feralcatlady im ready for another when you are

whatever you say doll

zachary seems like a nice gent...needs to not be so shy though! (just send an email next time silly!)

ha zach youre jsut saying that cuz i beat you to it!

hi

match me up ....lets see what happens !

im kinda surprised this is still going.....i havent made any decisions yet really...except that i cant be with anyone right now....too many things to figure out first and dragging someone else into my unresolved feelings isnt fair to anyone.....thanks for all the good comments everyone

i was a sophomore in high school and had just walked into study hall when someone asked if we could turn on the tv to watch what was going on....i didnt know anything about it until that point....the rest of the day at school we didnt really do anything but watch what was going on on tv.....

just wanted to say thanks to those that have given me good advice ....if anyone has any other good suggestions keep em coming....i appreciate it! and if you are just going to freak out and assume you know everything about the situation and just want to judge me for being honest.... please dont bother responding!

thanks unsure...i am trying to figure all this out before it gets too deep....regardless of what happens...at least 1 person is going to get hurt. i dont want to let it go on until i know what i want, because i think that will hurt more in the end. im not a mean or hateful person, and im mostly asking for advice so i can try to avoid hurting anyone as much as possible. ive been hurt before and do have both the guys in this situation....i just dont think its fair (to them or me) reagrdless of how i feel about either of them to be getting a relationship where im not sure its what i want...ya know?

actually my ex was a lil more metro than the guy ive been seeing....and the guy ive been seeing knows im not over the ex...he can tell...he brought it up the other day...i havent made any firm committments because i dont know what i want....mike (the new guy) is great....and i dont want to hurt him. Brock (the ex) hasnt gotten a second chance because i need to know that hes not gonna be using me. and i know how it feels to seem used....ive been there before in past relationships....i was so good to people and then i got sh!t on. which is why im trying to figure all this out before anyone gets hurt....

ok heres the deal....i have been seeing a great guy for a couple weeks now...hes such a sweetheart, he cooks, cleans, just wants to make me happy. hes always doing sweet little things for me. the thing is, im still not quite over my ex. my ex and i had a pretty rough break up in january, and in may he showed up where i work and wanted to talk about things. we have been talking once in a while since then, and about a month ago he told me he was sorry, he missed me and wanted me back. all i wanted for the longest time was him, but i had put the thought out of my head before he showed back up. things were great when we were together, and i do miss him. i dont think its fair to the guy ive been seeing for me to be dating him if im still thinking about someone else. any advice?

i think a big part of it is how long they have been with the person...it may not always have been bad..one of my best friends has been with the same guy for 5 years...he has cheated on her so many times and makes her feel bad for wanting to hang out with her friends....yet she still takes him back everytime he screws up. i think shes jsut scared to start something new after being with him so long...it may not always be fun, but its comfortable for her.....so she stays....

i have a few friends who call me baby brit since im the youngest of pretty much all my friends...thats the beebee part, and 6-20 is my birthday!

something strong please!