unsure

Joined Wed 08/16/06
Posts: 169
Tue 08/22/06 07:52 PM
Did you have an agreement to stay off of the dating sites? How did you
know that she was still on them....hmm you must have been on there also
looking around? haaaa just teasing!! I think that if you met on the
dating site, you have to agree that you have to stay off once you start
dating.
I truly believe that when you meet someone off of the net, you must have
lots of faith because of the miles between you. If you can't trust each
other then you don't have much. You really need to work that out before
you even consider having a one on one relationship.

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WHAT THE HELL IS HSE TALKING ABOUT? oN THE NET OFF THE NET?
FAITH..HEAVENS SAKE TRUST IS KEY AND RESEARCH IS THE ONLY WAY TO DO A
CHECK AND BALANCE ON TRUST...THAT IS A GIVEN... ONE IS STUPID TO JUST
ONES HEAD IN HER PANTS AND THEN GO DAAAAHH SHE CHEATED ON ME...

NEVER TRUST UNTIL THEY GIVE YOU A REASON TO TRUST THEM.HUMAN NATURE IS
SINFUL ALWAYS.

work is good, as 605% of married women at work will have affairs at work
so they are pretty easy to hook up with...lol

for a person that has a very boring no photo it looks pretty darn
neat....

I would like some opinions as to what went wrong here? Sure i knew it
would get a rise but gees why cant people step out of there prejudices
and look at the possibilities. heres a neat guy checking out a neat
women and thought she may be she had more than a fantasy at her age and
wanted realism and intelligence and sincerity..whats up here?
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i wrote:

Hello, WOW it is really tough with all the man hating going on today to
even try to trust someone decent. Then to find someone with all those
story book qualities that isn't taken and married(usually the good ones
are at our ages.lol) But love drives the heart. My name is Drew or short
for Andrew. I wish the pictures were larger. us guys and eye candy lol.
looks like a decent neighborhood in Sacramento assuming it was taken
there.

I am in Florida now and I have been through Sacramento many a times in
my business travels. Actually got hit by a vehicle up in Donners Pass
about 10 years or so ago. Snow and sleet issues at the time.

Any way I am new here actually as of right now (lol) and just wanted to
say hey to some people. Good luck in your search.

blessings
Don Andrew
lake mary, florida
PS:<a href="http://myspace.com/sprintphones"></a> for my profile.
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she wrote back:
Rapunzel : Age: 52 : Sacramento

Body: Hey to you too. What do you mean by your first sentence to me? All
the Man hating going on? What do you mean by that?
And well you wish my photo was larger? I'm glad it isn't.
My photo is much more than what some offer...
And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
Thanks for the blessings.
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i wrote:
Thu 08/31/06 05:11 PM
Subject: Re: Re: Chivalrous, courageous ...
Body: lets try to put this into perspective....

Hey to you too.

who would love to speak with, meet, get to know & build a long lasting
relationship with one good man who is intelligent, okay trying here lol

honest, ...as long as it doesn't offend your attitude

high caliber, as long as it meets your specific narrow standards

completely heterosexual, monogamous & marriage minded... they are mostly
taken

tall,

strong,

muscular,

masculine,

hard working & hard-

but tender & gentle...

STORY BOOK


What do you mean by your first sentence to me?
it was a moment to get a rise from you to see what YOU are made of....

All the Man hating going on?
defensive is a good word right now...

What do you mean by that?
read between the lines....


And well you wish my photo was larger?
over 40? need glasses? target marketing to a specific age, has a need
for a precise clear photo and a little larger text as a courtesy to
others...

I'm glad it isn't.
denial argumentative paranoid?...

My photo is much more than what some offer...
probably..
which doesn't make it better, makes it hard to convey the story of the
image presented....its communication at its very core...and more people
get connected with clear photos, it's a given...

And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
sorry ...second only to your looks and appearance ...in jobs ...in
dating ...in which side of the street one chooses to walk on... as it
defies the very core of men as visual creatures...gods creation as it is
cant be improved upon by your denial as to what is important and what is
only important as a point of your disagreement.


If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
right!! Okay

Thanks for the blessings.
thank you.



just by your most basic answers you show a lot about who you are and
your attitude.

positive?
attractive?
manners?
appearance?
social skills?
intelligence?
argumentative?
paranoid?
narrow minded?
a follower and not a leader?
closed minded?
judge mental?
superficial?

over 50? maybe 12 good years left....to date and mate and find a sincere
sacrificing non superficial long term relationship.

conversation would of been nice and an intelligent tit for tat...instead
of focusing for the negative...


Wasn't intended to inflame or offend. A rise
yes....conversation...debate...make you think, not with your emotions
but with your brain ....sure.

Don't be offended and fall into the victim syndrome kk.

lol

take that ...lol

very sincerely and with all do respect,
drew

ps:
If I am interested in someone...
stay lite, and have fun...
blessings

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she wrote back:
Thu 08/31/06 05:24 PM
Subject: Regarding your note to me
Body: I was wondering why you wrote to me
and sent an email address to write
you at your email address?

I sent a message back to you...
I see that you read it, but no response back.

Why do you send an email address, when you cannot even communicate in a
courteous way,
and respond to a lady's message?

If you cannot be polite in the little things,
how can you be trusted in the bigger things?????

Don't waste my time, if you cannot be a gentleman.
It's just like what I was talking about in the forum,

about wolves in sheep's clothing.
You guys try to look good on paper,
or on the computer screen,
but you do not exhibit one bit of courtesy
to even respond back,
and especially when you were the one who first wrote me and expressed an
interest.
Don't tell me you were too busy to write back,
since you had plenty of time to get online to read my response.
If you had the time to read my response online,
You certainly had time to respond back....
Oh, you guys are a dime a dozen ... get lost.
................................................................i wrote:
Thu 08/31/06 05:11 PM
Subject: Re: Re: Chivalrous, courageous ...
Body: lets try to put this into perspective....

Hey to you too.

who would love to speak with, meet, get to know & build a long lasting
relationship with one good man who is
intelligent, okay trying here lol

honest, ...as long as it doesn't offend your attitude

high caliber, as long as it meets your specific narrow standards

completely heterosexual, monogamous & marriage minded... they are mostly
taken

tall,

strong,

muscular,

masculine,

hard working & hard-

but tender & gentle...

STORY BOOK


What do you mean by your first sentence to me?
it was a moment to get a rise from you to see what YOU are made of....

All the Man hating going on?
defensive is a good word right now...

What do you mean by that?
read between the lines....


And well you wish my photo was larger?
over 40? need glasses? target marketing to a specific age, has a need
for a precise clear photo and a little larger text as a courtesy to
others...

I'm glad it isn't.
denial argumentative paranoid?...

My photo is much more than what some offer...
probably..
which doesn't make it better, makes it hard to convey the story of the
image presented....its communication at its very core...and more people
get connected with clear photos, it's a given...

And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
sorry ...second only to your looks and appearance ...in jobs ...in
dating ...in which side of the street one chooses to walk on... as it
defies the very core of men as visual creatures...gods creation as it is
cant be improved upon by your denial as to what is important and what is
only important as a point of your disagreement.


If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
right!! Okay

Thanks for the blessings.
thank you.



just by your most basic answers you show a lot about who you are and
your attitude.

positive?
attractive?
manners?
appearance?
social skills?
intelligence?
argumentive?
paranoid?
narrow minded?
a follower and not a leader?
closed minded?
judge mental?
superficial?

over 50? maybe 12 good years left....to date and mate and find a sincere
sacrificing non superficial log term relationship.



conversation would of been nice and an intelligent tit for tat...instead
of focusing for the negative...


Wasn't intended to inflame or offend. A rise
yes....conversation...debate...make you think, not with your emotions
but with your brain ....sure.

Don't be offended and fall into the victim syndrome kk.

lol

take that ...lol

very sincerely and with all do respect,
drew

ps:
If I am interested in someone...
stay lite, and have fun...
blessings
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So I don't see here I was not a gentleman and not sincere and not
respectfull.!
What do you think at age 52 and 48 and only maybe 12 good years left on
this earth to suck face.... guys and gals are not a dime a dozen but
some insecure, arrogant, vain, self righteous, egoistical.