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Mon 04/26/10 10:59 PM

i do, constantly. but i'm kind of a jerk.


. . .


too bad cause im looking for a nice guy frustrated

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Mon 04/26/10 10:53 PM
i dont believe for one split second that there is even one person in this world that has NEVER EVER judged another human being.

I call B/S and not sad that we do.

we have to do it its part of our genetic make up and you can talk till you are blue in the face...everyone judges other people. and it didn't even take alcohol for me to admit that. now weather or not we allow ourselves to get passed that initial judgment is a contentious choice that we make. power of choice is a wonderful thing.

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Mon 04/26/10 10:06 PM





All we see of someone at any moment is a snapshot of their life at that particular moment. It does not show us the millions of other moments... times of poverty, riches, joy, despair, ups and downs, moments of glory, elation, loss, pain, happiness, kindness, or the millions of decisions and choices that have led up to that one moment we happen to see.

Do we judge based on that particular moment we are seeing? Should we judge at all based on one moment? Are you able to put yourself in another's shoes..so to speak. Or simply go by what your seeing at that moment?

the good book that i don't follow but like to quote says "judge not, lest ye be judged."

or something like that.



. . .



thats funny

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Mon 04/26/10 09:57 PM





surprised surprised surprised surprised


are you ok goofy? missed you too buddy! smoch smooch kiss kiss


:wink: Missed ya too homegirl! smooched smooched


are you gonna slip some tongue or what?



Here ya go. tongue2 tongue2

Tongue for you.:laughing: :laughing:



me love you long long time :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Mon 04/26/10 09:56 PM


im not gonna lie, i judge on that particular moment in time, however i am also old enough to know that their personality isn't that split second, that there is more....


I think it's natural to do that..probably most do. You do understand there is more and that's the important part.

You're awesome!


just being honest. its in human nature to form opinions within what is it first 3-5 seconds but we also do posses another gift (one of many i must add), a gift of reason, some use it some don't....

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Mon 04/26/10 09:50 PM



surprised surprised surprised surprised


are you ok goofy? missed you too buddy! smoch smooch kiss kiss


:wink: Missed ya too homegirl! smooched smooched


are you gonna slip some tongue or what?

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Mon 04/26/10 09:46 PM
Edited by Edy_ca on Mon 04/26/10 09:47 PM

surprised surprised surprised surprised


are you ok goofy? missed you too buddy! smoch smooch kiss kiss

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Mon 04/26/10 09:37 PM

Hi foxy chick! flowerforyou love


missed you lots!!! waving smooched

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Mon 04/26/10 09:36 PM


yeah, i am excited about the spring, and summer being just around the corner. i have a week of holidays starting may 15, gonna be off for 10 days...wooooohooooo
dating , not bad, just same ol' pooh, i feel like Seinfeld...i know what i want right away, but i feel like im not giving these people a fair chance...


Hopefully this summer turns out better than the Summer of George.


hey sugar *licks your ear*

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Mon 04/26/10 07:44 PM
im not gonna lie, i judge on that particular moment in time, however i am also old enough to know that their personality isn't that split second, that there is more....

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Mon 04/26/10 07:41 PM
yeah, i am excited about the spring, and summer being just around the corner. i have a week of holidays starting may 15, gonna be off for 10 days...wooooohooooo
dating , not bad, just same ol' pooh, i feel like Seinfeld...i know what i want right away, but i feel like im not giving these people a fair chance...

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Mon 04/26/10 07:18 PM
Reality sucks, this is better lol dating blows blah blah blah
how have you been?

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Mon 04/26/10 07:13 PM
So, where the heck was ? I fell into this giant whole that did not include mingle, how sad is that!

Just wanted to say that i missed you guys and gals! flowers flowers flowers flowers

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Sat 03/13/10 06:15 PM

I WIN YAY! HEHE flowerforyou <---- for u blushing


you win and i get a flower....i can dig that happy

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Sat 03/13/10 03:43 PM

i beg to difer. like i said if u truely love sum1 it wnt matter
bigsmile flowerforyou


umkay :tongue:

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Sat 03/13/10 03:27 PM

i would have made sure it came up right away...get it out of the way, he will either take it or leave it all done, no more to ponder!
i agree if he real kares it wnt matter
not necessarily "wont matter". he may want to have kids...and things like that unless brought up right away may/do break up relationships.
all im saying is if he/she really loves u it wnt matter if u kan or kant have/want kids wen u love sum1 u love them for them not wat the kant or kan give even if u want kids an they kant haue kids u wnt leave them
i beg to differ, love isn't always blind...heart wants what it wants and there no reason to it (or something to that effect said by Oscar Wilde)
yeah thats true but 1nc agen if u love them u will understand
and once again LOL that's not always the case, there has been less in young loving relationships that were deal breakers. love does not cure all
and why do u say that lol. oh an hi by the way


hiwaving

i say that because it's true bigsmile

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Sat 03/13/10 03:23 PM
Edited by Edy_ca on Sat 03/13/10 03:24 PM
all im saying is if he/she really loves u it wnt matter if u kan or kant have/want kids wen u love sum1 u love them for them not wat the kant or kan give even if u want kids an they kant haue kids u wnt leave them i beg to differ, love isn't always blind...heart wants what it wants and there no reason to it (or something to that effect said by Oscar Wilde) yeah thats true but 1nc agen if u love them u will understand


and once again LOL that's not always the case, there has been less in young loving relationships that were deal breakers. love does not cure all

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Sat 03/13/10 03:19 PM

i would have made sure it came up right away...get it out of the way, he will either take it or leave it all done, no more to ponder!
i agree if he real kares it wnt matter
not necessarily "wont matter". he may want to have kids...and things like that unless brought up right away may/do break up relationships.
all im saying is if he/she really loves u it wnt matter if u kan or kant have/want kids wen u love sum1 u love them for them not wat the kant or kan give even if u want kids an they kant haue kids u wnt leave them


i beg to differ, love isn't always blind...heart wants what it wants and there no reason to it (or something to that effect said by Oscar Wilde)

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Sat 03/13/10 03:12 PM

i would have made sure it came up right away...get it out of the way, he will either take it or leave it all done, no more to ponder!
i agree if he real kares it wnt matter


not necessarily "wont matter". he may want to have kids...and things like that unless brought up right away may/do break up relationships.

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Sat 03/13/10 03:08 PM
Edited by Edy_ca on Sat 03/13/10 03:10 PM
I love it, very happy for you guys! wish you all the best!

wish you lots of lovin' $h!ts and giggles!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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