For me I would like to go on a date to an arcade/amusement park. We would play a little pinball and some old arcade games like Asteroids, Pac Man, etc, etc, etc.

Then we would ride the bumper cars. Then off to a game of Goofy Golf. Followed by dinner and dancing.

Thank you! Yeah, I'm always the one to count on when someone needs help even if it's to my detriment. I have been taken advantage of more times then I can count. I have so many stories.

When I was younger and naive I thought everybody was like that. After all, it seems most everybody says they'll help out others.

But, I have yet, to find another, in my life's experiences, that's helped when I needed it. The common action seems to be duct and run. Then they return when I've solved my own problems. Typically, I then help them with something they are doing.

The only solution, although sad, I have found to work is to isolate myself. Then nobody can take advantage of me.

I think I might ply him with whisky one night..do some digging!

Turns out my 'long lost love'.. is shy.
Now I'm reading up on that.. try to help him out of that a bit, bring him out of his shyness (with me)..and I'm a believer in talking and saying what you want..so we'll see how that goes, lol..
I've already shocked him with my forthwardness..

Did it work?
Did you date him?
Or say "okay, I'll be waiting on the shore for you"?

If he didn't do it, then it's meaningless air.
If he didn't get a date, then it was pointless.

...That seems more important:

"Most memorable first contact message? Good or Bad that actually worked to get a date or make you feel bad?"

No one ever asked me for money yet, Im sorry you went through that Cintigal

First off, my dad was taking care of his parents. Then he got sick. So, I took care of him and his parents. Then my dad died. So, I moved them into my place. Then my mom got sick. So, I was taking care of her too. Then my mom died. Then inevitably my grandparents died. It was 5 years of hell. I lost any remaining innocence I had. The rest of my family provided zero help and either protested the Cremations or tried to steal stuff from my grandfather due to his Alzheimers. Needless to say I have zero communication with any of my family and I aim to keep it that way.

My dad was my best friend and has not, nor ever will be, replaced. He was the only person I could totally trust. I will also appreciate and remember that.

The ordeal of being the primary care giver, and dealing with the doctors, healthcare system, nurses, medicare, and hospice forever changed me for the worse. I was subjected to many things I never wanted to be subjected to. I stay clear of the health care system now when it comes to myself. I dread the day I need surgery of some kind. I'm not sure if I will go through with it or not.

When I was married, my ex would tell me an invisible, gaseous orb would EXIT my body. Strangely, it only happened after the earlier nights dinner consisted of red beans and rice or Mexican food. It must have really scared her.....I always awoke the following morning to her having moved to the couch at some point during the night.....


I'm going to admit it. I fell over laughing at this one!

I lost my Mom two years ago and I just got word, half hour ago, that my dad just passed away.R.I.P.

Bill you? Do you mean like this?

I hope the one i wind up with is Kind. That is my number one I think.
As for fear...I am reckless and dont invest in fear unfortunately. At least not about finding a partner. I swoon and gush uncontrollably.