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Any One Else
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Yep! Chillin at home tonight. It's a crazy world out there and I love my little bubble.
Bought myself some apple cider mix and a few old cult classics. It's gonna be good. |
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Hi Brooke! Welcome to Mingle. Hit up the community and chat with us!
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a bad meeting
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I have to shake my head on this. While I understand this is not and experience that a lot of people would understand I am really sad to here that the OP decides to handle this experience as he has. Not so much that he would hang up from surprise but that he finds it necessary to stoop to calling offensive names for someone telling him the truth after what was clearly only a meet and greet date. I sincerly doubt that after your description of this PERSON that she "forced" you to kiss her. While I think it is tacky to pretend an identity that a person does not have it is rather humorous that this PERSON probably picked up on your lusty reaction and may in fact have tricked you into beleiveing something untrue. I will say that when people identify their true gender identity and begin pursueing it they can be quite appealing to the opposite gender because they want that identity and do what they can to make it bloom from thier inner personality. I think trying to pin a gender identity on a neighborhood is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. People of all genders live in all kinds of neighborhood.  I'm glad you took the words right out of my mouth. I think you said them better than I could have.
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hey ladies
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Welcome! Hello! Best of luck!
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Single,of course! Why else would I be on this site? Good friends and forums? Best of luck to you! |
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Last road trip was all of 50 miles to Hana. About as far as the road here will ever take me. Any further and I'd be closer to where I started from.
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Newly re-taken with a ring on it.
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DOES AGE REALLY MATTER?
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age doesn't matter, size still does 
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DOES AGE REALLY MATTER?
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I don't feel that age should be a factor at all, so long as there are two consenting adults involved.(And I'm not just talking "consent to sex" but also "consent to effort".) I've found both perks and disadvantages to dating older and younger people but love comes in many forms and when it does, it shouldn't be denied.
It does weigh heavily what mind set and maturity levels are involved and also what you're looking for in a relationship. Marriage? Family? I find many young people aren't prepared, (life experience wise), in that aspect. High seas? Mountain climbing and adventure? Depending on how old your partner is, you have to take into account certain health problems or career obligations. On a personal level, my fiance has more than a decade on me. We like to joke about the generation gap. (He was an old school punk rocker in the early 80's and I was a mopey goth kid in the 90's.) I feel like I keep him young and playful and he keeps me focused on my priorities. They may say that like attracts like, but it's a definite that differences intrigue. |
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Advice Requested
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quote] I would like to get a little advice or at least a few opinions on how to best play a part in a current family problem. As children, my older sister and I were both sent to a "fire and brimstone" Southern Baptist school and brought up in the church. It was extremely repressive and a very bad experience. In addition to the hypocrisy we witnessed in these institutions, our mother was fanatically religious at home, teaching us:"If it's not God, it's Satan" and telling us every time we misbehaved that we would burn in hell. 14 years ago, my parents had another child. My father pulled my mother out of the church and away from the influence of fear preachers. He assured me that my little sister would be raised to think for herself and to make her own decisions. Today my little sister called me, upset that "Mom has flipped out and she thinks I'm possessed by evil spirits because I went to an after school club where they teach about paganism." I don't want to intrude on the way that my parents are raising my sister, but at the same time, I don't want her to re-live any part of my childhood. Any advice about what part, if any, I should take in this? If I was you I would try and get there,,see them all,,and TRY talking with reasons of your past and HER,,,as a premise to talk about your sisters life there and her well being verses all you had to endure,,,NOW,,,if THAT sounds like something that would flip out your mom,,,then TRY all that with dad,,? SOMEONE has to address your mom's tormented heart as to GOD and what she believes is his hands and ways,,,,and your sisters evilness PLEASE,,,,don't even let FAMILY,,,,do a wrong that YOU FEEL is and KNOW IS,,,,,going to hurt your sis for life... even if YOU have to devise a way to take her in and protect her from THAT....
FEAR,,,is NO-REASON to stay clear of them or her ways... Be honest, be YOU, and be THERE for your sis,,,, WHATEVER its out-come,,,,,,,IF it means SHE(sis) is safe and clear of this kind of obedience,,,,then all is well,,,and YOU BOTH will have laughs about it,,later in your lives Thank you for this advice. I do feel that I need to stand up and do something. I may not be able to do it without hurting feelings and pride, even my own, but my sister is worth that to me.
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Advice Requested
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I would say just read books. Religion is all in books. That's the only way it can survive. Telling someone to believe something won't make them believe it, and if it's that important at all there's no harm in checking out other religions. Especially because a lot of religions kinda require that you only follow that particular religion... So, yeah... Christmas coming up... on December 25'th. Well said. I have studied many religions and have found that they all have the same underlying message. Live a good life, be loving and good to others, uplift each other and realize that there is someone or something out there greater than you. I think it's disagreements that have severed us. Thank you for your input.
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Advice Requested
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I only bring this up because I can relate to your mother.The more you read the bible,the more expierences you have with both good and evil spirits,and the more educated you become the more you will know on how Satan gains control of weak minded people.Pagans and their religion are no friends of Christians and your mother should be worried.I totally understand that Pagans in general are harmless and usually laughed at as kids who never grew up and still live in their mothers basement.But Pagans keep witchcraft alive and often practice it.Their pagan symbol is identical to the Satanic pentagram except it is the other way around.Pagans are nearly always ex Christians and spend a great deal of time speading lies and misinformation about Christians.They typically are depressed and confused and often mentally unstable.Most pagans have friends who have commited Suicide. oh for heavens sake..."kids who were laughed at, never grew up and still live in their mothers basement"... 
Magic happens all the time...miracles happen. Anyone can create it, yet you call it witchcraft. The pentagram is not and never has been a satanic symbol...it represents the 4 elements and spirit. "Pagans spend a great deal of time spreading lies about christians" You are misrepresenting Paganism just with what you are saying here..."most Pagans have friends who have committed suicide". Many people know some who have committed suicide... "Pagans are no friends of christians..." Pagans do not care what you believe, we wish you love and peace, you are afraid of us because you don't understand what Paganism is.... which is very obvious with what you have just stated. And has also given me a great laugh for the night, so thank you for that!! Peace brother 
Well I have two sisters that are Pagans and I dated a Pagan for over 3 years.I think I have a pretty good idea what Pagans believe and don't believe.But maybe I just imagined my two sisters and girlfriend and everything they taught,showed,and told me.Perhaps I can give you their E-mail and you can teach them some things they don't know about Pagans.After all my sisters have only been practicing it since 1978.I'm sure you can give them some great advice. Were your sister and ex girlfriend kids who were laughed at, never grew up and still live in mommy's basement? 
Ladylid, you rock
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Advice Requested
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Be there for your sister and your dad as for your mum it is very sad that religion has such a hold upon her when at the end of the day if only she could see her world would be that much happier spent with her loved ones and not a church that twists things in order to influence the vunerable. Religion and those that influence others by fear and twisted views have a lot to answer for. Anna x Thank you Anna. I totally agree. It was sad to grow up, unable to communicate with my mother because of her fear. I certainly hope that my sister doesn't miss out on this as well. |
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Advice Requested
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Thomas,
I certainly appreciate your input, but I disagree with the idea of taking away any one's personal freedom to make decisions about their beliefs. I believe that it is fear based practice, instilling grief and guilt in children, that later leads to depression, mental scars and possibly suicide. This may not be a means to an end, it certainly came close to being the death of me. In a situation where an innocent child is concerned, why should more guilt be compiled by hiding curiosity and emotionally protecting the parent? We may not be on the same wave length because I am discussing psychology and you're referring to spiritual warfare. I realize this and agree to disagree. Blessings. |
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hi
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hello moe.
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Excuses
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The one my friend just got : "God told me that I need to be alone."
...how do you argue with that? Ones I've gotten in the past: (from a guy) "Actually just came over to see if your dad was in the swimming pool, no offense." ouch. "You have the bigger heart, I have the stronger heart. That's why I'm the one leaving you." huh? "Well she's a practicing witch...you know that. She put a spell on me with candles and bloody marys and one thing led to another.." um, yeah. And the one that made me realize I had really bad taste in men... "I'm tired of having to unload all my guns everytime you come over to spend the night." thank god I made it outta that one alive. |
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You don't fight fire with fire. You fight it with water.
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Advice Requested
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If you're not comfortable speaking to your Mom, talk to your Father about this. He seems a bit more down to earth. I will talk to him... after the storm settles a bit and he doesn't feel that he has to face my mother's fury. Thankyou! |
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Advice Requested
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Just be there for her..unfortunately many people teach their children this sin and guilt, godfearing philosophy because they believe it is best... This experience will help her to find her own path one day. 
I know my mother is only doing what she feels is best for my sister. I appreciate your understanding of this. I will be there for her.
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Advice Requested
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be honest with your mom about your feelings....but be there for your sister all you can thankyou. I certainly believe in honesty. I just worry about siding in arguments where children are involved. I appreciate your imput. |
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