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Mon 03/22/10 10:40 PM

I in no way intended to make you cry.. but honestly if it wakes you up then it's not a bad thing...

You don't know enough about the world to stop living it for YOU.. Give you some time.. Who cares if you're alone.. You have family and friends that love you and those are the people you will enjoy time with... IF he really cares about you then he'll understand and want to "date" not get married before you truly know what you want in life..


The people giving you advice in here are experienced people.. Some married and divorced, some never married but they've all one thing in common.. SINGLE and have had relationships that didn't work... More than one I can pretty much guarantee you...

If we don't know about mistakes who does? We're giving you advice most of us wish we had listened too years ago...

oh please ive been in colorado for a year and have yet to make one friend that hasnt screwed me over and my family dont like me all that much so thats out, i swear u people talk to me like im ****ing stupid, i hate that

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Mon 03/22/10 10:36 PM

How long have you been seeing him?

almost a year

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Mon 03/22/10 10:32 PM

The key points are-

No love it's a overused useless word that to most explains the depth of their feelings for the one they hope to spend the rest of their lives with....


No sex yet, so no idea if it's good or sucks, if it will help keep the relationship going or ruin it...

No other options so the first and only offer is better than being alone...



All of those reasons spell DISASTER!!!!

I hope your parents married for LOVE and stayed together for LOVE...


My opinion is that you don't want to be alone so you'll accept him b/c he is your only option at this point..

You have no idea what love is so you negate the meaning....

You're 18 and feel like you know about the world, what you want and all there is to know...

You have no clue, you're getting ready to throw away good years of being young and having fun...

You WILL be divorced when you wake up in a couple of years and realize you made a mistake and want to live life and find "true love"...

Or he leaves you b/c he wasn't ready either!




well if u set out to make me feel bad and cry u accomplished it

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Mon 03/22/10 10:26 PM


Uh...don't do it? From all logical points of view this will fail, matter of fact from most statistical points of view it will fail.

Grow up a bit, eh? Enjoy your youth...don't piss it away on marriage just yet.


Right there, along with the tons of other like-minded advice you didn't seem to like given your previous reply. What does it matter? You won't listen to anyone that isn't already validating your own plan, so why the hell should anyone give any advice at all that can be deemed good?

yes ive been listening to what they say, and it gets me thinking, so dont say i just reject them when i dont, ok its hard enough to even think about rejecting the only guy that shows any feelings for me, oh u have no idea

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Mon 03/22/10 10:20 PM







Ive known him for a while, and i really like him, but am I too young to say yes to his proposal?what


your 18 and how old is he?

he is 22drinker

well that changes things. he's way too old for you.
he's only in it for the sex.



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hes 4yrs older than her. hes not that old
geeze when i was 18 i was with my daughter dad and he was 27yrs old
(no my daughter wasent even thought of at the time)

hmm i like u, ur on my side here, i figured since no other man has even tried to date me, and this is the only man who has, rather i have a husband or not i still plan to get my degree in nursing and live my llife the way it should but i just wont be lonely while im doing it


See, this is the problem with these kinds of threads. You ask for advice but all you are really looking for is validation.

I miss the old forums...

well sorry to hear that but do you have some honest advice for me then????

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Mon 03/22/10 10:00 PM





Ive known him for a while, and i really like him, but am I too young to say yes to his proposal?what


your 18 and how old is he?

he is 22drinker

well that changes things. he's way too old for you.
he's only in it for the sex.



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hes 4yrs older than her. hes not that old
geeze when i was 18 i was with my daughter dad and he was 27yrs old
(no my daughter wasent even thought of at the time)

hmm i like u, ur on my side here, i figured since no other man has even tried to date me, and this is the only man who has, rather i have a husband or not i still plan to get my degree in nursing and live my llife the way it should but i just wont be lonely while im doing it

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Mon 03/22/10 09:45 PM


I personally think 18 is far too young...
:thumbsup:

Quite literally the human brain hasn't even finished developing at 18 so.... slaphead

lol yes im in human anatomy class so i know about the brain, thanks for thatgrumble

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Mon 03/22/10 09:43 PM




Ive known him for a while, and i really like him, but am I too young to say yes to his proposal?what


your 18 and how old is he?

he is 22drinker

well that changes things. he's way too old for you.
he's only in it for the sex.



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lol wow i cant believe u said that, we have yet to have sex so i dont think that is what he is in this relationship for ok

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Mon 03/22/10 09:41 PM

honestly....if you are asking people you barely know, then maybe you aren't sure yourself, which would mean you aren't ready

its not like i might take their advice, this is just actually giving me time to think about it is all, i dont want to jump into this but i dont want to pass up on something that could be life changing

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Mon 03/22/10 09:40 PM

i say marry him. the world's gonna end in 2.666 years anyway. and if it doesn't, you can divorce him and take half his stuff. it works out for you either way.


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lol thats funnynoway

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Mon 03/22/10 09:39 PM

Gotcha...

okflowerforyou

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Mon 03/22/10 09:37 PM


Ive known him for a while, and i really like him, but am I too young to say yes to his proposal?what


your 18 and how old is he?

he is 22drinker

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Mon 03/22/10 09:37 PM

You avoided the 'love' part of my post...


I think age has a lot to do with it... Some make it, most don't... Not many know what they really want or know what love really is when they're older let alone young and no idea what the world is about... But again that is "my opinion"... You asked and I gave it...

yes and i thank u for the advice, but i dont really like to use the word love, to me its just a word, i rather he show me how he feels about me, which he does everyday, and i show those same feelings back, cuz i believe when you say the word love it becomes routine, and something you have to do because u said it so, thats why i left it out ok:wink:

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Mon 03/22/10 09:30 PM

The one thing I didn't see you write was how much you loved him... I personally think 18 is far too young...

lol hell my mom got married at 19, and her and my dad been 2gether for 20 yearsdrinker i dont think it has anything to do with age

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Mon 03/22/10 09:24 PM

oops slaphead

yea, i dont plan 2 say anything right away so im thinking bout it for a while, and thanks ill be careful

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Mon 03/22/10 09:21 PM
Ive known him for a while, and i really like him, but am I too young to say yes to his proposal?what

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Sat 03/06/10 10:53 PM

Very pretty.flowerforyou

aww thank you

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Sat 03/06/10 10:48 PM
flowerforyou Tell me what you think, and if you like let me knowflowerforyou

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Sat 02/06/10 01:09 AM
HELLO EVERYONE IM STILL UP 2 AND BORED 2 DEATH

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Sat 02/06/10 01:02 AM
What do you do when you love someone you can't have?