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Sun 10/24/10 05:42 AM
Aw.

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Sun 10/24/10 05:35 AM

Since it says "No BOYS allowed", I'm good to chime in. hehe

I have to disagree, to a point, what some guys said. With the right women that they'll shave/cut anything. Ok, some will. It doesn't matter to them (or they're just that desperate). For some it also grows back a lot faster. Yes, women can make guys do things that they normally wouldn't. No secret there. But, if you're a woman, would you want a guy to change that just because you don't like it? Is that much different from him saying that I won't date you unless you dye your hair or shave your ()???? Apparently, I have a bit of a mustache. Would I shave it off because of a woman? HECK NO! Hormones can do funny things, but after a while, they wear off and the "WTF" factor rolls into mind. Does that make for a healthy relationship? You shouldn't try to change or even judge somebody as your 'perfect mate' for something as superficial as that. If you have a fear of facial hair, maybe you have an underlaying issue, but, there's more to a person than the soup strainer!


Semi-related to the topic at hand, I've been considering shaving mine all off for the first time in a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time. Feedback? Yes? No?


You're cute. And funny.. Hot hot hot..Wannna come out to Calli? Keep in mind. I don't judge. Let's face it. We all prefere 1 thing over another....

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Sun 10/24/10 05:25 AM



Semi-related to the topic at hand, I've been considering shaving mine all off for the first time in a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time. Feedback? Yes? No?


Personal opinion - if you've reached a place where you want a drastic change - go for it! I'm pretty sure it will grow back lol.

On topic - People change - but they should change for themselves. You can make suggestions or say that you like something, but personally, unless I LIKED the suggestion or was curious to see what it would be like, I wouldn't do it. You have to be happy with yourself to be happy with someone else.


Cool and correct.

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Sun 10/24/10 04:13 AM



I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy :smile: flowerforyou




rule breaker!

:laughing: :laughing: rofl rofl rofl


2 Cute....:smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: flowerforyou

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Sun 10/24/10 03:59 AM
flowerforyou

I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy :smile: flowerforyou


Yeah. I think I have issues. Maybe it's not them...it's me...Thanks for your support..flowerforyou flowerforyou

Much love.

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Sun 10/24/10 03:50 AM

yeah there were definatley underying issues that were there..

but as for the hair thing its just hair..then he shoulda been dropped kicked


Undelying issues. Wjo would've thought.

Thanks for your input...got a lot to think about.

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Sun 10/24/10 03:45 AM


Is it ok to change?


People change all the time.

Sometimes you have no control of it.

As far as the small things you mentioned above, I believe there were some underlying issues at hand.

Something a little more complex than a hair poopy do.

But... if you feel the desire to end a relationship based solely on a hair cut, congratulations! You have reached the land of superficial bliss. It's a place where unicorns fart rainbows and everything is pretty.


Don't I have the right ot be happy?

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Sun 10/24/10 03:40 AM


My ex husband like women with short, banging, razor cut, multi colored hair.......When I met him..that's what I looked like. But after 5-6 years...I wanted a change. I gre my hair really long..he got kinda pissy. After that our marriage started to go down..down. down.. I want to know. Is it ok to change?


sounds like the communation wasn't there, if he felt you looked better in short hair style he should have sayed that and got over it


That's true.

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Sun 10/24/10 03:32 AM



my ex had really hair feet but i learned to deal with it.overall i dont like a really hairy guy..learn to love his flaws b.c nobody is perfectflowerforyou


thats cool , I'm sure if we talked to your ex there would be some small thing they had to live with



yeah im sure he did,and know im not perfect laugh im big on personality and how im treated.

swim,my ex wanted me to keep my hair long and wanted to control who i talked to etc etc..sometimes personalties dont mesh


good point!

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Sun 10/24/10 03:32 AM



my ex had really hair feet but i learned to deal with it.overall i dont like a really hairy guy..learn to love his flaws b.c nobody is perfectflowerforyou


thats cool , I'm sure if we talked to your ex there would be some small thing they had to live with



yeah im sure he did,and know im not perfect laugh im big on personality and how im treated.

swim,my ex wanted me to keep my hair long and wanted to control who i talked to etc etc..sometimes personalties dont mesh

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Sun 10/24/10 03:20 AM
My ex husband like women with short, banging, razor cut, multi colored hair.......When I met him..that's what I looked like. But after 5-6 years...I wanted a change. I gre my hair really long..he got kinda pissy. After that our marriage started to go down..down. down.. I want to know. Is it ok to change?

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Sun 10/24/10 03:17 AM

my ex had really hair feet but i learned to deal with it.overal i dont like a really hairy guy..learn to love his flaws b.c nobody is perfectflowerforyou


I like hair. Don't get me wrong. I'm also into weird quirky stuff..crooked teeth, thick eye brows..cleft chins,.etc etc. etc..

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Sun 10/24/10 03:15 AM

Yeah, shaving is no problem.

I kinda like shaving actually.

I've even went as far as to dub the process of shaving my balls, "Gettin' pretty."


nice. te rare and few..thanks.

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Sun 10/24/10 03:01 AM

for a guy it's just hair , if your important to him he will cut it off if you ask him.think


Aw..that's so sweet...

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Sun 10/24/10 02:58 AM


Is it ever ok to change a guy...


If you ever feel the need to change anybody, you need to question why you're with them in the first place.

... spock


Oh...so true..

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Sun 10/24/10 02:55 AM
Sorry bout the spelling errors. Had a few..

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Sun 10/24/10 02:53 AM
Hi, Ladies! I was married for 19 years. I've been trying to get back into the swing of things since 2007. Quetion. Is it ever ok to change a guy...I mean...I've dated some cute guys...there are-obviously 1-5 things I'm not jazzed on...

ex: big ugly mustaches. i like hair on the body...not just a smelly crop on the face and lip. Am I being too picky, or being a *****? Curious. Last guy I dated told me....because I don't like an over abundance of facial hair.....i am doomed to living a life alone......can that be true? is that whky i'm single?

Girls. What do you think? I mean..I like manly men..but I am super sensitive to smell..got a nose like a Bloodhound. AND...too much facial hair makes me break out...

What do you think, girls? I need to know.

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Sun 10/24/10 02:39 AM


To a person, and they chop off your arm. Do you offer your other Hand?


I try not to, but have a habit of offering them the same arm that would now have a prostheses instead. I'm getting better my the day though! Every time I upgrade to a stronger material to make it harder to cut through!


***Disclaimer.... I have all my natural appendages, but mean no offense towards those who have not!!!!! This is to be taken light heartedly!!!


You're too smart for our own good....

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Sun 10/24/10 01:14 AM

WE'LL ANOTHER YEAR OLDER .AND LOOKING FOR LOCAL SINGLE WOMAN FROM LOS ANGELES & ORANGE COUNTY ...FOR COFFEE&TALK ...PLEASE REPLY ...NO TRICKS OR GAMES BE HONEST


Hey,1961! I just turned 49 on the 10/11! We should start the 1961 Club! And yes, my picture is recent. I took it with my cell phone 2 days before my birthday. Got any plans? My friends had a BBQue/cookout and cake. Didn't get too crazy. After all, we'll be 50 in a few!drinkersmokin: flowerforyou bigsmile

My birthday wish for you is that this year be the best ever!


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Sun 10/24/10 01:08 AM

Hows it goin im new here and just wanna meet some new friends. Hit me up if you wanna chat. Im not looking for sex or anything else just wanna talk to some new and interesting people.


Welcome, and how refreshing! There are a lot of interesting people here.

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