Yes this is research! I will share the abbreviated results with you all.
Thanks!

TT, I don't know how you feel about Michele's suggestion, but it kinda
gave me a thought...How about Dad walking the first half (he was there
first), kissing you and handing you off to Step dad (he was with you
during the second half of your growing years), kissing you and handing
you off just a few short steps from Chris, where she can get you away
since she has been there thru thick and thin?

When you talk to them all about what you want and the story doing it
this way will tell about how important each of them are in your life. It
will take a bit longer but includes all the people who are important to
you.

SIDEBAR: Chris, can you say elope?

adj4u,

Please go back a reread my comments! Stop reading between the lines and
applying your own personal experiences.

I suggested that TT use those questions to reflect on HER life and HER
experiences.

It is all about how SHE feels and what she perceives her relationships
to be.

At the risk of sounding cliche'...the world can't be built on good
intentions. As a father, it is an individuals responsibility to be the
best DAD he can be! Focuse on your child and you can't go wrong...give
them what THEY need, don't play "Santa Claus"...Be a true hero to your
child...and love them "unconditionally" always.

A "DAD" will move heaven and earth to champion his/her child!

It's not about having YOUR way...It's about honoring the person who
waited up for you at night, held you when your had heartbreak, held your
hair back when you were sick, and has loved you unconditionally and
respected and supported the decisions you have made in your life.

Don't worry about what someone else is going to "remember" the rest of
their life, make the memories you will treasure the rest of YOUR life.

No one said life was going to be easy (I don't think? )and you
will face many more difficult decisions as you go through life.

Suggestion: Have you been able to talk to your mom about this dilemma?
Can she listen and be impartial?

Anyone can be a father, the question is who do YOU feel has been a DAD
to you?

As the song says..."You're Daddy's little girl..."

True it is your day...but there is no avoiding talking to both of them
and explaining your decision...and reaffirming why each of them is
special to you.

It's OK to show each of them how difficult it was to make this decision,
but YOU must own the decision.

Hope this helps.

Mo, hold your confession until Friday. That give you 2 more days to
squeeze some "stuff" in!

Thanks to you all for participating and having fun with this!

Tell your friends to participate in this research.

Thanks!

Jersey is HERE!

How YOU doin'?

Congrats, shadow!

Izzie, you fought the good fight!

I'm sooo happy for both of you, I feel a song comin'on...

This is the song that never ends.
It goes on and on my friends.
Someone started singing it not knowing what it was,
and they'll continue singing it forever just because,

This is the song that never ends.
It goes on and on my friends.
Someone started singing it not knowing what it was,
and they'll continue singing it forever just because,

This is the song that never ends.
It goes on and on my friends.
Someone started singing it not knowing what it was,
and they'll continue singing it forever just because,...

Beach...

A prank is a prank...as long as you are not malicious and no one gets
hurt...I think you're doin' fine!

I'd be curious how long it would take your neighbor to realize there was
a problem with the clock...That class could last forever!

I'm feeling lost and I don't know why...It's starting to make me
cranky!

Hi Morena!

Of course you want to spread joy and happiness in JSHland!

You've been on a "lucky" streak!

Hey Conor!

Think outside of the "BOX!"

Good for you!

Hey Jc! Just asking what your primary reason for using this site
is?

It's not that complicated, just read the list...If your not
interested...move on!

Just pushing here.

I really would like more input!

Thanks!

I hate to be harsh, dude...but, get over it!

You had done to you what guys have done to women for ever...you were
there to get her everything she wasn't getting at home. (the old my
"wife" doesn't understand me)

She got her egp boost and now things are all better at home!

Live and learn! Sorry, dude...I know it hurts!

Let her go...move on!

BTW...I still gonna win!

Beth, you're looking tired.

I thought I'd come back with a little pick me up.

How about another sing along?

I'll start and you and your friends can join in!

READY!


































































I love you,
You love me,
We're a happy family,
with a great big hug,
and a kiss from me to you,
Won't you say you love me TOO!

I love you,
You love me,
We're best friends like friends should be,
With a great big hug,
And a kiss from me to you,
Won't you say you love me too

"Blessed" Beer anyone? ICE COLD!