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Sat 02/23/08 11:55 AM

What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever.


Whether you want to forget it or not, it's still a part of your past. I would let anyone that you are thinking about dating know that you're not going to put up with abuse of any kind.

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Sat 02/23/08 11:07 AM

Welcome back shutter, was thinking about how things were going with you the other day.


Thanks, shutter #1 laugh I'm feeling sick today, not going to work, just feel like laying in bed. Still sad from the way things turned out with her. It is hard when you really did love someone and they just don't want what you want. I hope the next one will be better. I always seem to pick the girls that don't want attention.

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Sat 02/23/08 10:42 AM
That's very nice. I like it. Sounds like a true love that is hard to find these days.

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Sat 02/23/08 10:38 AM
I had deactivated my profile for a while, but after a brief enounter with someone that didn't work out, I am back, and I have updated my profile.

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Sat 02/23/08 01:29 AM
I get attached just talking on the phone. And even after only a month, losing her hurts so bad I wish I was in another world. I tried and tried to ask her to forgive me, because I love her, and she says she will rather hold a grudge and hate me.
It amazes me how some people have no feelings at all.

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Fri 02/22/08 08:16 AM
Hey Coco. Getting snow on that side of the lake?

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Sun 02/03/08 09:10 PM
Aww Morena so sorry to hear that. Stop crying girl, here is a tissue for you flowerforyou

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Thu 01/31/08 10:50 PM

I met two guys. First guy was okay but we were with a group of friends. The second guy was a success and a real gentleman. I had fun but I was nervous.


Yeah, I am planning to meet this girl next month. And we are BOTH nervous about our first meeting. But that's to be expected when meeting for the first time.

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Thu 01/31/08 10:48 PM
Edited by shutterbug63 on Thu 01/31/08 10:48 PM
This is getting to be a really crazy, mad, mixed up world. People just go nuts and don't think what in the world they are doing.

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Thu 01/31/08 10:44 PM
I met one girl on here on Thanksgiving day last year, we are now very good friends but not dating.

Another one I talk to on the phone every day and we are meeting next month.

JSH does work, just gotta be patient.

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Thu 01/31/08 10:42 PM
Edited by shutterbug63 on Thu 01/31/08 10:46 PM
Click on "My Account" then click on "Profile" then you will see your state in blue below that, click on your city or state, and it will show you all members in that city or state (sorry but shows both guys and girls so you gotta sort out the guys.
Or just try a search and specify the area you want to search.

I hope this helps.

Oh, and by the way, I grew up in the ATL

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Wed 01/30/08 10:21 PM

I started a group on myspace called "The Myspace Weight Loss Challenge" today. Its to challenge yourself, not anyone else, to finally lose the weight and feel good in your own skin. No one will judge, belittle, or harass anyone in this group. I'm the moderator, I won't tolerate it. So far I have 3 other members besides myself. It doesn't matter what size you are, if you want to jump on the healthy band wagon, then this group is for you!

http://groups.myspace.com/themyspaceweightlosschallenge


Well good for you, Jayme. Maybe I need to join that one myself. But now, you don't need to lose weight, do ya? flowerforyou

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Wed 01/30/08 10:15 PM
Edited by shutterbug63 on Wed 01/30/08 10:18 PM

Don't forget tampons and a vibrator! That'd be one lonely island.


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I'd bring a woman, preferably one of my choosing, like my gf :wink:

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Wed 01/30/08 10:10 PM
I don't know, leah. Age is really only a number, so long as you are both at least 18. I'm 44 and my girl is 31. We don't have any problem talking to each other. But I suppose people have their own reasons, and it could be anything, including the part about wanting someone who is 21 so they can go drinking. But then, if he only wants that, maybe he's not so cool after all?

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Sun 01/27/08 10:28 PM




too personalblushing


Hi Enya! flowerforyou

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Sun 01/27/08 10:27 PM

nevernoway


Me too laugh

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Sun 01/27/08 11:52 AM

ahhhhhhh!! didnt think of that...good thinking batman!! thanks:wink:


Who is batman? Is that a British slang I don't know about?

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Sun 01/27/08 11:50 AM
That's a good thing. I have often found that some of the women I really wanted to email have either a distance or an age filter so that there is no way to contact her.

BTW, if anyone really wants to contact someone who has such a filter, you can always try adding them as a friend, and send them a message with your request. Once they reply to you, or add you as a friend, you can always email each other.

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Sun 01/27/08 02:48 AM
Repeat after me: Step AWAY from the bottle. laugh laugh

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Sun 01/27/08 02:40 AM


wouldn't it be easier just to write her an email?
he hasnt got her user name i think thats why he is looking for her!


Oh yes, I do have her user name. Just trying to locate a thread that she was in...

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