i am changing my name. tell me which middle name you like the best.

i'm going from Edward John Bandell Jr to,

Eddy Michael Mcfee

Eddy Ryan Mcfee

Eddy Scott Mcfee

Eddy Adams Mcfee

Eddy Thomas Mcfee

alot of people like Eddy Michael Mcfee. i can't deicde between Michael and Scott.

take her to lunch, something really great and maybe a movie. she will like the fact you are spending time with her. getting her out of the house. she's pregnant not dead lol.

any idea's?

i wouldn't know how to handle if my future wife got hurt in any way and couldn't give me sex. i think i would feel very confused and scared of hurting her more.

if i was the one in a whell chair and couldn't sleep with my wife, i would talk to her about what she needs, wants and feels. if after a while she needed sex and i couldn't give it to her. maybe i would be in the right frame of mind to want her to be happy in everyway. this is something each person in a relationship needs to deicde and talk through..

everything i have tired as failed. being confident not being confident. dressing in fited clothes, begger clothes. changing my hair. being simply myself. nothing has worked.

i even starved myself for months because a girl said i was to fat for any girl. i lost the weight, cleaned up. nothing. gained some weight back nothing happened.

i want to know whats wrong with me.

i just say hi when i meet a girl. i ask how she is doing. i look her in the eyes only. it doesn't work..

any longer then a minute of smiling at any girl who either get the cops called on me or her throwing something. smiling not such a good idea.

i know woman are just as scared to ask or even talk to a guy. but more then 90% it's still up to the guy..

i get that alot, the confidence factor.
when i do have it built up, wearing nice clothes no odor whats so ever i still get turned down when i do see a girl that caughts my eye.

whats left?

your 100% right, but it's the lack of hey how are you today kind of experince i'm lacking here.

okay then the guy your mother and sister find are good. but the women i have talked to say shorter guys are not good enough. when i was younger i was told by a female friend that since i am short i'll never have anyone. that i wasn't good enough.. i stopped being her friend after that. but i'm not 28, maybe she was right?

maybe your right, but it;s hard to get around. i hate bars and clubs, so thats out for me..

parks maybe, i mean there is a park in avon lake where poeple walk and go swimming. i did get stared at by this gorgeous woman. but then she turned away so i don't think she wanted me to talk to her or even say hello. so i faced that fact and went about my business.

northshore11 should add real photos. come on be real with yourself. what a shame.

your parents got really lucky then.

my height is a problem for many women. i;m not sure why though. it;s a stupid thing. it;s like a guy only caring about a womans chest and nothing else about her. i can't change how long my legs are. well i could but it cost alot and it;s very painful.

i don't think i used the L word, i'll go back and read that.

but i wouldn't EVER walk up to any woman and tell her i love her. i'm much smarter then that.

about the fun thing, that could mean so much. define (fun)

i go for any type to be honest. she just needs to be smart and funny and honest. but i do like women with a certain smile and lips. i can't explain that part fully.

so i should be taller?

yeah thats the number one problem for me. i'm far to short. thanks for the advice..

pay her? yeah that might work until the cops come LOL.

thats a great idea!

what does it take to get a woman to say yes just one time for just one date? no more no less just one date to see if there is anything in common?
i'm 28 now and it's getting harder to get that one yes