thanks a lot my friend , i hope that all people in this world read what i wrote cause only god knows that muslim terrorists over the world are not real muslims , they just use islam to make people hate it and hate muslims :(

Sorry to hear that sweetie. I hope the love of your grandparents helps a bit

So I don't have kids of my own, but I have noticed that at some point, the relationship between my mom and I evolved from Mother/daughter relationship to a weird adult friendship where sometimes I mother her and other times,she mothers me.

Has that transition taken place between you and your young adult kids? And if so, do you enjoy the bond you share with your kids as adults more than you enjoyed that disarming bond in the parent/ child dynamic?

Dear ----,

I figured with the time difference between us, one thing that could make this work (and I am very eager to see where this would go) is for me to write you letters. I know you said you are not much of a writer so feel fine sending me one-sentence replies. Seriously, I won’t mind :) I think letters - or at least long emails - should make a comeback, don’t you? It is the perfect way to tell someone you’re thinking of them offline.

Sorry for not being upfront about my name, unlike you. Don’t worry the pictures and other profile info are real. Got to be careful with the new dangers/annoyances modern tech brings. You won’t believe half of the IM’s I receive. Not revealing my real name is my way of distancing myself from the unpleasantness of objectification and it’s like the nastiness cannot touch me because they don’t really know who I am.

So imagine my relief when I discovered that someone with zero social media presence is a real, genuine, living, breathing person; a guy full of passion and dedication to his profession that he gets recognized for it. You didn’t tell me you were Iron Man. LOL. :) Well, I guess heroes are allowed their secrets.

I wish I could say the same thing about me. That I’m up there with the best at what I do, or that I’m a real hot girl you wouldn’t believe. Hahahaha. I think I look alright and can occasionally look good in photos provided I am dolled up a bit, the camera is in the right angle, and I’m receiving the right light. LOL. But it’s important for me that you know I don’t wake up looking like that. I have messy curls, I wear glasses sometimes, I can have break outs, my skin rashes a lot with abrupt changes in temperature, my weight fluctuates.

I have learned to embrace my averageness as I have walked through life and I’m hoping to be liked for my winning personality. Hahahaha. So far you’ve been good at handling my often incoherent, winded and silly responses. Expect more of that soon. I’m looking forward to seeing a serious guy like you laugh and smile his self in stitches with me.

So these are my thoughts while my 4-year old nephew is invading my laptop to search for dinosaur videos on Youtube. :)

Xoxo
Olivia

Maybe they are not, maybe they are attracted to who she is as a person and she just happens to be a little overweight.