Over the past year I think I have read it all.
But the posts that get to me are
Is it me?, Is it them? Are there any normal people left?
The answer to all of the above may be yes.
It may be time for an awakening……….

Ask yourself….

Does my name represent a part of who I am that I want others to see?
Does my picture capture my identity?
Am I using a name like sexy kitten, pink kitty, ramhard69 and then wondering or worse complaining that only perverts are contacting me?
Am I showing pictures of body parts in boxers, panties, swim suits, nightgowns etc. then saying “not looking for intimate relationship” and wondering why that’s the kind of response I get?
Are you the one who flirts with all the women/ men in a public forum and then wonder why the quiet one in the back never responds to you?

Look at your posts/profile with an observers eye. Are you sounding needy, grieving, lost, helpless? Most of us are not poets and its hard to get the intent of our emotions across with only words.
Everything we do or don’t do is judged by others. Sexy flirty emails, instant messages, cams, phones etc… everything we do makes up who we want other to believe we are.

The amazing thing about the internet is that it affords us the opportunity to re-create ourselves if we want to and it can happen as fast as hitting the refresh button.
You can be the 45 yr old guy looking for the 25yr old arm candy, the 40 yr old plastic Barbie looking for her sugar daddy, or the 50yr old looking for companionship.
Its all about being happy where your water level is at. Reaping what you sow. Self growth, potential and acceptance.

So Here is to all of us!
Hoping water is seeking its own level no matter the depth and breath of your container.

Welcome back bud! I never heard anything about you being trashed? Sorry to hear the relationship didnt work out. Look I grew a new head! I love when the oldies but goodies come back!

Pull up your big girl panties and get over it! You been around long enough to know you got to kiss a lot of frogs!

Mikes post is under relationship advice and there are many parts of his post that I can relate too.. I think like Lori we should be kind and supportive. I don't think picking apart his post is helping him out at all.

You will have to cut in!

Its called keeping a life boat and its common in a disposable society.. and in my opinion bad for to many reasons to mention.

Guess it all depends on what type of women you want to attract.. In my opinion I think you should change your name and put a shirt on!

Joshy remember that sometimes it's easier to ask for forgiveness then permission!

There are lots of reasons but the biggest is because your picture can be stolen and used on other sites.
Also some dont know how to do it.
Lots more reasons too.

Don't it feel good to blow it off in a safe place where no feelings are hurt!

Because its fun and creative and lets you in on that person's personality thats why.

He certainly should have! The right one will come along Tom

didnt you have one day before yesterday or yesterday? Cant remember lol Brain fart

I was chatting up a storm this am and found myself late for work and never heard about the interview Tom

I think they made a shot for swonnicles seeking attention!

HI princess welcome to JSH but I think everyone is on the friday thread but I could be wrong as im easily confused!

You better cool your drongles down before they drangle!

Sorry FineP that was ment for Cater

Oh go get a dictionary!