love the eyes

smile in your next pic!!!

Not to bad

lol I am open for all comments

I agree let him express his anger and be there when all said and done.

No matter what just be their friend and enjoy don't ever feel pressured to be a mom just be you!!!!

I have five come talk to me I will be there for you!!!

I am a single mom of 5 there ages are 7 boy 6 girl 3 year old identical twin boys and a 8 month old baby girl. I am on lock down 24/7 and have had the same problems as you. My advice is to spend time in their room and talk about what their objects in there means at those ages they have no real understanding unless you repeat and repeat and tell them. They have no understanding what the bed means what the dresser is for and so on. I know it sound stupid and you understand what things are but repeating is the key and yes it's annoying as all get out but imagine you don't understand what something means and the importance of it. Oh by the way they always act perfect around everybody else but when it's you and them it's evil I know what your talking about with the plotting but you need to get out and also keep firm. I hope this helped.

Trust me I am almost there

I would never let a man meet my kidss until I know him really well and still be cautious.

So sorry

Thank-you!!

Thanks so there is hope!!!

Thanks, I am so close to just closing down and really turning into a hermit!!!

I am a single mom of five and support them by myself not looking for a daddy and not looking for someone to pay for their needs thats my job. Oh and by the way I get this question all the time the first four have the same dad who lives in another state and see's them maybe once a year and the baby her daddy is just gone. I am more looking for someone to hang out with, laugh with and just be me. I work more than full time plus go to college on-line. My kids are pretty freaking amazing we work as a team and there a little more grown up then most. In our house they know what they need to do and they are very much loved. My oldest daughter call's us the ohana family which means family nobody gets forgotton or left behind. So my question is how can a mom of five find a real man who will see past a woman having five children?