scheming?? for what?

hey good answer, not. took ya a long time to come up with that one huh?

wow , theres actually a couple nice guys on here and a not so nice one.

its not for me tunner, but ty for the input

so now we pretty much know you would be the last person to ask for serious relationship advice?? cuz youve never really had one.

sounds like your proud of that ?? hmmm what a great guy you are!!

oh , ok , so thats prob why you have been on here since 2008???

not nice RK

geez, again picking on us old broads, lol

i did say serious answers goofball

ok , i have a friend, honestly, lol , its not me. anyway she dated 2 different guys at 2 different times, first guy she dated 3 times he wanted sex, she said no, so he stopped dating her, 2nd guy she dated 5 times, had sex with him and he stopped dating her. what do guys want? do you want sex after a few dates or do u think the girl is trashy if she sleeps with you that soon? my friend is ready to give up on dating cuz guys never truthfully say what they want from a woman. only serious answers please, my friend is really upset about this.

i would text you but im old and you didnt leave your number, lol

i think it depends on the guy, all arent the same , I go for the taller guy, with big forarms, big hands, rough hands, cuz you know they are a hard worker that way, a guy that will look into your eyes so deep he makes your heart melt, a guy that can make a decision on his own , but will ask your opinion first. a guy that has a job, lol. a guy that is rough and tough with everyone but you. a guy that will wrap his arms around you and make you feel like you are the most important thing in his world at that moment. its just that whole male thing, taller, stronger, rougher, Now some women like the smaller skinny guys, me personally feel like it would be like hugging a girl, To each their own.

I think if your upfront with the guy, and let him know you are a bbw, and ask him what his preference is, you should have no problem, im a big girl too and dont have alot of problems getting dates, just have a problem finding the right date lol, good luck to u.

hey now, dont be picking on us older broads, im 51 and have 20 somethings asking me out alot, would never date them , cuz id feel like i was with a kid, but old broads are ppl too!!

well its happened 3 times so far, so ya kinda get sick of it after awhile.

hi chinen, ty for your input, you gave some good advice, and i appreciate it, but as far as my spelling goes , if i wanted an english major that would correct everything i write , i would of expressed that in my profile, although it is a kind gesture, to want everyone to punctuate and spell correctly, it is not the most important thing in my world.

ty35too appreciate that

ummmm ok thanks for that,