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Wed 07/08/15 05:40 AM
I agree with Debbie, more content is needed.

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Wed 07/08/15 04:54 AM
*pinches myself*. Yup Real

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Wed 07/08/15 04:50 AM
Hi Sunshine,
Lots of good guys are looking at online dating, myself included. And most of us have stories of our own, I expect everyone does. I'd drop you a note if you lived near me. Good luck in your search for Mr. Right!

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Tue 07/07/15 12:03 PM
Thanks Sitka and Debbie, I was hoping I could find a way to make it better. I appreciate your positive feedback. flowerforyou

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Tue 07/07/15 11:44 AM
Sorry, no chemistry

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Tue 07/07/15 11:41 AM
Thank you!

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Tue 07/07/15 11:38 AM
I'm gonna agree with devildog. Most likely she didn't notice you. If you were watching her you probably would have noticed if she looked at you. Approaching women on the street can be dicey at best. Sometimes you can strike up a conversation if something happens that you can comment on, like a big bump or lights flickering or if it's very hot or cold, if she engages then you can go from there. If not just move on.

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Tue 07/07/15 11:21 AM
No, I'm happy with me, but I'll gladly welcome constructive advice.

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Tue 07/07/15 11:11 AM
Lol, I'm sure you can do better than that.

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Tue 07/07/15 11:09 AM

Spin the dreidel or the bottle?


I had to look up dreidel lol. That's the right one.

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Tue 07/07/15 11:06 AM

A Few Good Men - "you can't handle the truth"

As Good As it Gets - " you make me want to be a better man"


What do I win?bigsmile


flowers I was looking for a cookie or a gold star but that one works.

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Tue 07/07/15 10:30 AM
Very nice, you got the quote right but the movie wrong. Spin again?

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Tue 07/07/15 10:30 AM
Very nice, you got the quote right but the movie wrong. Spin again?

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Tue 07/07/15 10:20 AM
Lol, the quote from Jack Nicholson from A few good men comes to mind.laugh

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Tue 07/07/15 10:08 AM
What do you think of my profile? Any tips?

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Tue 07/07/15 10:01 AM


My only pet hate is blatant ignorance.. A simple thanks but no thanks will be fine..
Just to ignore you is ignorant.


im ignorant then, because i haven't got the time to reply to between 60 to 80 messages a day, sometimes more.

my mailbox today stands at 139 messages, which i wont reply to.( unless they are friends and i haven't had chance to reply back yet)

if someone takes the time and writes a nice message, even if im not interested, i will write back and say thank you, but im not looking etc and all the best for the future.

i think the women get more messages than the men on here.

i don't think im ignorant, since i do reply, if they have made the effort even when im not interested.




Debbie, you are the exception to the rule. I'm new to this site but I've been actively online dating for just over a month.

I take the time to type out a thoughtful note, pulling in interests she's expressed, and sharing something new that's not on my profile. Guess what? 99% of the time it's a zero response. Yes on some sites I paid for the premium to see if it's read but many sites you can see who has viewed your profile. So you know they read it. Typically, I wait a week then post a follow up message just to give them a second chance to respond. That will be a copy past message. After another week I I block them from future searches.

My supposition... Women who get on these dating site get a rush with all the attention from random guys. Presuming they are gods gift to men and have no need for curtesy to those of us they deem insufficient.

This is the main difference in the experience (real) men and women have on these dating sites.

And a final note to all those disappointed women out there crying oh he lied to me or I dated him for a month and he was married, yadda yadda yadda... Here's a tip, if it looks too good to be true it most likely is.

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