Hopefully very soon, it wont be so "Long Distance" anymore, and we can both quit suffering!

She is my little performer She loves me

Honestly, where you live, I imagine a dating site like this wouldn't be the best for you. Most members here are in the US so not a large pool for you to pull from. I'd try the local scene

For me, it would depend on the distance

where there's a will there's a way

Hey girl! You seem like a nice, level-headed smart lady from what I've read so far.

I can't tell you how easy it is to fall for someone (not necessarily in love) but fall, be enamored with someone else online. As far as LDR go, I'm not a huge fan of them as they take a lot of work and commitment to keep the romance flowing. I prefer someone local but that's just my own personal preference as well as convenience. I feel like if anything takes inane amounts of work, I try not to push or settle myself with someone. But I feel love can make you do some wacky things and I know I've done my fair share for the guys I've loved.

There's a lot of things to think about with LDRs: time difference, work schedules, of course finances seem to be the popular one listed. I also think it takes a great deal of trust as well as many have already said. A lot of people in IRL and online put this above all else as do I. There's gotta be that foundation of mutual trust stirring in the pot from the beginning or I think it may be doomed to decline from whence it started. And that's what really sucks. Relying on that solely to keep anything afloat.

threesome

YOU can pay for our date

You shouldn't HAVE TO BUY any DUDE,,and to be real with you here,,IF he is struggling ALONE,,HERE,,,How in the World could he EVER survive THERE with you? Money doesn't buy anyones reasoning or change who they are from bad to good..
YOU can love a man sounding like Jesus,,,over this Net, and find Him to be Satan in person..
If you want to be involved with ANYONE in an LDR,,then within a month or two, of thinking and feeling that,,MEET with them before going on,,at whatever and however THAT can be done..
Write a Senator and tell them you would love to meet them that they fascinate you,,,and see if that gives your visa some pull,,anything or means to make it possible..
Or have him fly to se you there,,,BUT,,eye-ball to eye-ball baby,
Because no one can trust the user's we have in this World..
And------------------>these words can be sweet as honey--HONEY!
I know to many women who have been used in these LDR,,and it SUCKS.

I've met a lot of people who took themselves far too seriously and who expect the same thing out of their partners. So what kind of person are you? How important is laughter in a relationship in your opinion?

Can I just ask...has anyone ever done a LDR without having met your 'significant' other? Would you consider that a relationship?

Taking into account finances and geography etc, how long would you wait before meeting?

SINGle and stayin' that way till this Lone Wolf finds a Lone She-Wolf...........









BTW, Why isn't there a "Tingle or 'Saken" thread?

I know you cant be talking to me cuz your profile says no men over 40 lol.Here i have you on my friends list and i cant even send you an email,It wont let me cuz i'm to old lol.