tommieg, please, don't talk down to me, im not some piece of $hit ok? thank you

i was right, it was you whineing about not being matched yet, you must think this is real too, or you wouldn't be whining about it

Tommie needs a pounce




<----------pounces on tommie and fills his face with kittens......Im not giving up tommie......and hey I did match ya once.......It didn't work out.......but it gives me lots of hope I can do it again......right.......Heart you tommie

tommie, wasn't it you that has mentioned that feral couldn't find a match for you? cuz these were hetero men?

im certain that was you..

"the internet is real for whatever you want to be real"

you either want it to be real, or you don't..make up your mind

if you expect to find someone, keep your hopes up, stay positive, cuz i see the negativity as unattractive, im certain there are others reading that feel the same way.

"but Im in this thread for 10 / 15 mins a day if that...if you take this seriouly...you do have some issues in my opinion

so then, someone that wants to meet you shouldn't take you seriously? you're not in this for a REAL relationship? here i thought you were tommieg

"meeting ppl in the real world....outside of a computer box has always been the way...and will still always be the way"

then find a match, and MEET them in person, and stop whining if it doesn't work out the way you hoped it would..

sometimes pictures lie about a person, don't be whining about that, it happens, in the real world too

sometimes, you're not even attracted to the person you meet, don't be whining about that either, it happens in the real world too

sometimes, you get down on yourself, that happens in the real world too

expect to have days that are good, and bad, and some in between
that happens in the real world too, but do you whine about it? or just deal with it?

tommieg...are you real? are you real when you sit infront of your pc? or are you some fantasy person we've all dreamt up to fill some void?

that's what i thoguht. you're real too.

your desire to be heard is met...we hear you
your wants, hopes, and dreams are real ...deny it, i dare you
reality is...that people allll over the world get hurt, cheated on, played, they all fantasize, and they all hope....dare ya to deny that also

if you think anything about the internet isn't real...then you have way more problems than you care to admit, and way more than i care to address

yes to all of it

if this whole internet thing is fantasy...why the hell are you so upset by it?

it isn't fantasy, it's a medium of communication, yes some people lie, yes some tell only 1/2 truths, but for the luv of gawd, some of us have our hopes up to find mr/mrs wonderful.

nothing burns my ass more than someone comin into a thread and tellin how upset they are, cuz some fool played 'em, lied to 'em, or whatnot

this is the real world, in the real world people play other people, they lie, they cheat, all that, this is real, so keep your chin up, stay positive, and weed thru the twits, the liars, the cheaters...don't be so impatient, use your head and not your fantasies to find mr/mrs wonderful

It may be fantasy but I have seen a few very happy couples from it.

Awwww thanks bad, I dont know about smart, but I have been thru it all before, too many experiences and know how fake this whole net thing can be to some people! Toooo many games played!

Yes I know the diff between fantasy and reality. I still think when someone says they want to REALLY get to know you it goes beyond that. To wanting to know the real you.

I've been, deliriously happy, head over heals in love with Jimmy ....He is an AMAZING man!! Deb is the bestest!!


how bout you?

Hun after seeing that most men are looking for Barbie or just a quick cyber sex. There isn't none around here for what I would call a real man.

I am just over the whole thing when guys blow you off easier over the internet.

((((((((((Tommie))))))))))))




how's you luv??

Just so everyone knows I am not here to be matched just chat.

***holds out arms for tommieg*** There is that better love I am sorry

Aw (((tommieg))) it will be okay honey don't cry come here and let me make it better for you.